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I am a 30-something FORMER DINK (Double Income, No Kids) who welcomed our first child on August 1st, 2011 following many years of infertility. I am married to a wonderful (though somewhat work-a-holic) husband and daddy. This is my journal to help me stay sane through the trials of infertility, pregnancy and motherhood. We have unexplained infertility. After enduring IVF #1 failure, we miraculously became pregnant from FET #1, and we were overjoyed to welcome our little one August 1st of 2011.

Friday, March 27, 2009

Religion and Alcohol

We went to look at a boat last night, then went for sushi afterwards. Another reminder to me that I wouldn't have this type of lifestyle if I had kids. It just doesn't work, and for now, I really enjoy this lifestyle.

Anyway, we had a very nice time, but there was something that bothered me. Our waitress at the restaurant somehow worked it into the conversation that she didn't drink. TW asked her if she was Mormon, and she answered no, but seemed surprised, possibly offended at the suggestion, then he asked her if she was Baptist, and she said she was not only Baptist, but she was hoping to be a missionary. She told us the reason she didn't drink was because she felt that drinking would cause her to "lose herwitness". I find this idea kind of offensive and judgemental. I don't have any issue with those who choose not to drink of course, but the people who are very wrapped up in a church who believes that alcohol should be forbidden can be a bit over the top. Basically she is saying that if I chose to have a conversation with someone about God, but I was drinking a glass of wine during the conversation, then my credibility is compromised. That is ridiculous.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Healthy Eating

We're really trying to get back into the swing of working out several days a week and eating healthy. It's been difficult because of all the stuff we have going on, but we're really trying. I went to the new park in town and ran 4 miles on Tuesday, but yesterday I was so sore from the run that I didn't exercise at all.

I'm buying all natural foods in an effort to keep us eating right. I'm totally on a "no artificial ingredients" kick. It's hard when you're out in the country a bit and the only grocery store you have is located in a Walmart. It drives me completely crazy to look at other people's carts while I'm in the checkout. They are filled with chips, hot dogs, pre-made dinners, high sugar cereals, and no real fruits and vegetables. I know everyone is busy and I know it's really hard when you work and have children to take care of, but I wish we could get back to the basics and try to cook meals from scratch to avoid all the preservatives and artificial ingredients. I used to love Lean Cuisines and Lean Pockets, but now I just feel like I'm eating lower calorie junk food.

I made tortilla soup last night. I poached 2 boneless, skinless chicken breasts in water. I took all natural corn tortillas and put them in the oven for probably 15 minutes, until they were crispy. Then I put olive oil, onion, jalapeno, garlic, bay leaves, canned tomatoes (drained), chicken broth, lime juice, cilantro and salt and pepper in a pot. Once the tortillas were done, I put about half of them into the soup and saved the other half for garnish, then I shredded the poached chicken and added to the soup. For a little richness, I added a small amount of shredded cheese towards the end and some cut up avacado. It was delicious with a salad and a glass of red wine.

I'm hoping the weather clears up this afternoon so I can go run again. I will take the dog this time and hopefully TW will go too.